PUA Dynamite: How to kiss a girl

Learn How To Seduce, Attract and Pick-Up Women

Hi Kelvinyau,

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Man. I'm pumped up just thinking about this. To quote from a film about pick-up that you've probably seen, this one is money. I can't remember how many times guys have asked me for advice on how to kiss a girl for the first time. It's a scary moment: it's only a few inches between your lips and her lips but it seems like a mile. It's the time when you put your cards on the table and go for it; it's also the time when a rejection has the potential to cut to the quick. Making an approach is a nervous moment. Asking for a number is a nervous moment. But going for the kiss trumps them both.

But what would you say if I told you there was a way to move in slowly, confidently and powerfully and get the kiss? You'd probably be willing to pay top dollar for that kind of dynamite information, right? You don't have to - I'll give it to you for free. Bet you're glad you signed up for these emails now, eh?

First things first. Most guys wait hours and hours and then lunge in for the first kiss. They get rejected because the girl is totally confused and, probably, freaked out. Other guys wait for the perfect movie moment to go for the kiss. Perfect movie moments don't exist and the kiss never comes. To guarantee you get the kiss, you need to do it smoothly.

But how? Here's how:

1. In the ten minutes as you work up to the lip-lock, you should be touching the imminent recipient in increasingly more sensual ways. Here's how I do it.

• First of all, I touch her arm for emphasis when I'm talking.
• Then, I touch her hand - a really good way is to take it when you look at a piece of jewellery she's wearing.
• Then I touch her hair - I ask her if it's her natural colour, if she wears it up, if she's ever cut it short or used to have it long... It doesn't really matter what you say, just run your fingers through her hair. If she lets you do that, you're IN. You're money. You can kiss her now. Stop reading. Kiss her. Do it.
• If you're still not sure, smell her hair.
• Then take her hand while you talk. If you have been carefully escalating your kino, she won't mind this. Don't stare at her hand, just take it. You're the man here, right? - act like it.
• Squeeze her hand. If she squeezes back, this is another big kiss-tell. No girl squeezes back if she isn't ready to kiss.
• Here's where you break out the sexual nerve gas: stop talking, tilt your head and look at her. Stare into her eyes. You can tell whether she's comfortable. If she is, kiss her.

You'll occasionally have bumps on the road, but you can get over them. What if she turns her face away when you try to kiss her? Kiss her cheek instead and then move onto her neck! She will usually turn around and kiss your lips. Most guys consider this to be a rejection and give up. DON'T! It isn't rejection - she's just testing you. Don't back away. If you brush it aside in a manly fashion, she'll respect you more and be turned on into the bargain. Bonus!

Touching the girl in the lead-up to a kiss is really important. But it's not all you should be doing. Establish a sexual vibe during the conversation too and you'll have a powerful weapon. You'll be unstoppable. Adding a sexual vibe makes sure the girl sees you as a potential lover rather than a friendly hairdresser. And this is how you do it:

2. Establishing a sexual vibe as you escalate the physical contact

• More intense eye contact
• Slower, smoother, deeper voice
• Look at her in a sexual way, start to look at her lips as well as her eyes and see if she reciprocates. If she does she is imagining kissing you. Go for it.

3. Sometimes, even with no work on your part, she will still want you. When a girl wants to kiss you:

• She squeezes your hand
• She looks at your lips
• She touches your chest instead of arm
• She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking

I hope you are enjoying the PUATrainingVault, I know there is a lot of stuff in there so I wanted to draw your attention to a couple of my favourite things.
A great MP3 interview with MattH
A 2 minute day-time Kiss-Close by RichardF
My Body language turorial.
Free chapter of my Home Study Course. (Right-click and choose "Save Target As...")

This stuff is golden. Promise me one thing - promise me you'll go out and try it. Okay? It's all very well learning from my emails, but you need to get into the field and practice. That's the only way your skills will improve. (Email me and tell me how you get along. I get a massive buzz when students crack their hang-ups and make progress.)

If you haven't been doing that, you might not be the type of person that can learn by "distance learning." That's not something to be too bothered about - plenty of guys have the same problem. But I can tell you one thing for sure: keyboard jockeys get nowhere. You'll only make progress if you force yourself to take action.

You must either commit to (a) going out and pushing yourself or (b) coming to a bootcamp where we'll do it for you! The amount of training and practice we give you in 23 hours is worth more than a thousand hours of self-study. Seeing these skills working right in front of you is what you need to see to know that you can do it too. If you don't think that the bootcamp is the best thing you've ever done I'll give you you're money back. I am that confident. Really. My Seduction techniques are broken down completely in the Home Study Course, if you learn and do what it says, you'll be better than me at my best!

That's enough for now. Get out there and try it out. I'll be back next week with some more techniques that will improve your game.

Visit the Secret Members area inside the PUATrainingvault at:

www.puatraining.com/secret.html for PUA audio, live PU video and pictures of HBs.

Until next time,

Gambler.

It's happening - in just a couple hours!

Hey,

It's happening - in just a couple hours!

Cajun and I will be taking your calls - live - answering your questions on body language, non-verbal communication, and physical escalation ("kino"). We'll be answering your immediate questions on body language, non-verbal communication, and physical escalation, and explain why these are such critical components of seduction.

We're down to our last 17 lines for the call. Even if you don't have any burning questions yourself, it's a great opportunity to listen in and learn from the best.

Here's how to reserve one of the lines for yourself (it's free, and so is the call):

http://www.lovesystems.com/body-language-call

IMPORTANT

• The call starts at 6pm PST today, Wednesday, June 2 (9pm EST)
  
• If you're not on the call within 10 minutes of start time, we'll give your line to the next person on the waiting list.
  
• Make sure to take notes! There's too much stuff we want to share for us to be able to make a transcript.

Talk to you (very) soon,

Nick Savoy

Hey,

As I mentioned the other day, this WEDNESDAY June 2nd, Keys to the VIP winner Cajun and I will be directly answering your questions - live. The call's going to be at 6pm PST (which is 9pm EST or 2am GMT).

To reserve your spot (and get your dial-in code) click here:

http://www.lovesystems.com/body-language-call

This is the perfect opportunity for you to get some rare and fresh insights into dating. In particular, we're going to be focusing on body language, non-verbal communication, and physical escalation (aka "kino").

Here's how it works.

First you need to sign-up for your spot on the call by clicking the link above - it's free apart from the cost of a regular phone call. Then once you've signed-up, you can submit a question that you'd like Cajun and I to answer on the call. We'll try to answer as many questions as possible in the time we've got.

Remember we're primarily going to be focusing on body language and non-verbals and why this is such a crucial part of attraction, so try to keep your questions focused on that.

*** Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) ***

Q. What's in it for me?

A. You will be getting free, up-to-the-minute coaching from two of the most successful and experienced seduction coaches in the world - me and Cajun.

Q. Why are you doing this? What's the catch?

A. There is no catch - it's absolutely free and there is nothing to buy during the call. As to the reasons why...

Last week we ran a competition on The Attraction Forums asking "what's the most important skill that all top guys have, regardless of their individual strengths?" The correct answer was, "Body language - and everything else that you're telling women without words."

Your body language is one the first things that a woman will notice about you. It's how she'll develop her first impression - and most women will decide in the first 30-90 seconds whether you go in the "no" or the "maybe" pile.

Although body language is such a key element of your game, we were quite surprised that it was hardly even mentioned during the competition.

So Cajun and I decided to do a conference call so that we could answer your immediate questions on body language, non-verbal communication, and physical escalation, and explain why these are such critical components of seduction.

Just think of this as a very early Christmas present from us - a small gift you can use to achieve your goals with women that much quicker.

Q. Who is Cajun?

A. Cajun is one of our most popular - not to mention devastatingly effective - Love Systems instructors. Like all experts, he puts his own style on the tried-and-tested Love Systems approach. He uses a "natural approach" relying on body language, tonality and what he calls "subtext" to create attraction.

Whether it's attracting A-list celebrities, making out with a famous female rock star in a San Francisco bar, receiving love letters from (and consequently dating) Playboy Models, or hosting a boat party on a yacht with half the models in Toronto, Cajun remembers where he came from and has devoted himself to helping men reach the same success with women that he has.

Q. How do I ask a question for the call?

A. You can click here [ http://www.lovesystems.com/body-language-call ] to submit your question. We'll answer as many as we have time for.

Q. Help! It says that the call is full. Can you let me in or send me a transcript?

A. We've leased 500 lines for the event and as soon as they are booked out there will be no more spaces. The last call we ran was in January and all of the lines were reserved within hours of me sending out the link.

It's a popular event but we need to keep it relatively small to ensure quality (and that we can deal with the most important questions). Technically it can also get a bit messy to lease too many more lines.

And sorry, there won't be any transcripts - doing a quality job on a call like this is work enough.

Q. Last week you mentioned something about a new home study course?

A. That's correct. In about one week's time we will be releasing a body language home study course featuring Keys to the VIP winner Cajun, and Shakespearean actor Vercetti - both body language experts extraordinaire - and attraction guru Mr. M.

I'll be personally e-mailing you more details about the course and how you can reserve a copy, so be sure to check it out!

Thanks,

- NS (Savoy)

P.S.
To reserve your spot (and get your dial-in code) for this call click here:

http://www.lovesystems.com/body-language-call       

How about an Opener for next Weekend?

Hi,

Last night Style mentioned to me that he had sent
a personal email to a few people and YOU are one
of them.

And because Style’s friends are also my friends,
I wanted to follow up with you with a quick email.

By the way, my PUA name is 'The Sneak' and I will
share with you (infrequently) some of our (Style
and coaches) PUA adventures and tips.

That said ... it's almost the weekend.

And you should be making plans to go out and meet
girls.

If you're not going out this weekend to meet alluring
women at clubs and bars, then I've one question for
you...

Why the HECK not? ;)

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
That's me quoting Style, quoting Wayne Gretzky.

When I first moved to L.A. I went out with Style
one night at a hot Hollywood club and he pushed me
to talk to every woman I saw, even if she was
"out of my league." He said that the first step to
becoming a pick-up artist is...duh...meeting women.

That night he gave me a great opener... :)

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The Jinx Opener
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The opener that Style taught me that night was the
Jinx Opener originally created by Stylelife coach
Evolve.

What you need:
Pen & Paper (napkin)

How to do it:
Grab a napkin from the bar - Write on one side of the
napkin, "My friend just Jinxed me! I can't speak
until
someone says my name." On the back write,
"Don't give me that - He's hitting on me face- you're
not even my type." In the middle write, [your name].

The approach:
Make your approach frantic; as though you are searching
for anyone you can find to help you out. Take the
napkin and put it in the hand of your target. Let her
read the napkin. She'll laugh or look at you like
you're a weirdo, the latter being more effective
in this case.
After she reads the front, regardless of her reaction,
flip over the napkin so she can see the disqualifier
side of the napkin.

Make sure everyone sees the napkin when you hand
it to the girl. During the time you're unable to
speak, use a lot of extreme body language to get
the group to laugh and play along. Think of it
like charades.

When they ask what your name is open up the napkin
and show it to them. Once they know your name and
un-jinx you, you'll have a thoroughly opened set.
Of course, the whole group will laugh. You will now
be the most exciting person they've met all night.

Notes:
Once you can speak you've already hit a hook point,
you can either stack on another opener or DHV.

This opener is great in a crowded nightclub because
you don't have to speak. There are no noise issues.

If they won't un-jinx you... you can always pretend
they did, and then blame the confusion on the noise.
Regardless the set is open as long as they are having fun.

If you have a pivot you can have her approach by
saying: "Don't say his name! He's only got bad things
to say!" This will make the story look real;it will
solidify the root.

Let me know how it works out!

Send me an email next Monday and tell me how the
opener worked for you.

With your feedback we can probably make the opener
even better.

Talk soon,

-The Sneak

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