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Style Picked Me! I'm Going to London!!!
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GREAT NEWS Tung Ching Yau!!!
I'm going to London! We did it!!!
Thank you for participating in my PUA WORK-OUT
CHALLENGE :)
I wouldn't have made it to London without you!
I'm editing my lecture right now. In London I'm going
to share how you can generate your own new and
unique routines. With this skill you'll never need to rely
on old routines again, you can craft your own :)
I hope you can make it to see me in London. I just
spoke to Gypsy and he says that as of right now we
have only 8 spots left at the London Conference.
They are going to go quick.
If you want to learn from Style the master PUA, if
you want to learn Gypsy's hand massage technique, if
you want to meet ME, if you want to get your hands
on the Total Life Make Over DVD Set then now is the
time. Go for it! Click this link:
http://www.stylelife.com/world-conference/london/
We're going to have the time of our lives :)
I know I'm going to London but that doesn't mean my
PUA WORK-OUT CHALLENGE is over. In fact, it's even
more reason to continue.
So here is this last challenge...
...it's time to KISS CLOSE!
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The Last PUA WORK-OUT CHALLENGE: Get the KISS!
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We have one week until London. That means you have
one week to kiss close one lucky woman.
I know this might make you nervous but don't worry
because I'm going to give you the tools to make it easy.
For many guys the kiss seems like the first make or break
it moment when you know if a woman is actually sexually
attracted to you. Therefore this moment gets built up
into a challenging obstacle that becomes impossible to
defeat in the mind and therefore in reality.
The truth is it's all quite simpler than that.
First, you need to be aware of some basic female facts.
A woman is probably not going to kiss you if she won't
move to isolation with you. A woman is probably not going
to kiss you if she hasn't shown you even one IOI. A woman
is definitely not going to kiss you if you don't approach
her.
But let's examine this from another angle. A woman is more
likely going to kiss you if you approach her. A woman is
more likely going to kiss you if she shows you IOIs. A woman
is very likely going to kiss you if she goes into isolation
with you.
What I aiming at here are that there are ways you can build
up your chances for the kiss by planning ahead.
Let's imagine you've done everything right. You've approached
a woman, you've been getting IOIs from her, and she moved
into isolation with you. Or alternatively you are both now out on
a Day 2 (that's a date to the uninitiated).
The next thing you're going to be working towards is a kiss
close. Because if a woman has done all these things with you
then WAKE UP! She wants to kiss you. And GUESS WHAT it's
your job to KISS HER.
That's right! You're the man and that's your role. You must
lead her. If you don't lead she can't follow. But if you do
lead she'll more than likely follow and respect you for it,
because all women are looking for REAL MEN. Simple. Simple.
So you know your duty and now all you need to do is perform
it. And you will do so in the following manner.
1. ALWAYS USE KINO ESCALATION
There's a natural order to turning a woman on. They don't
prefer for you to dive straight at their lips for the first
kiss. Instead they like a little teasing. They like a little
anticipation. They like a little rising action. And that's
your Kino Escalation.
Kino is just a short way of saying playful touching, and not
necessarily sexually touching, but the kind of touching that
comes before sexual touching.
There's easy ways to insert kino into your interaction with a
woman before you kiss. Here's a short but not complete list
of examples:
-When she makes a sarcastic joke or remark nudge her in the
arm with your fist or shoulder lightly and smile.
-Insert kino into routines like The Ring Finger Routine or
Palm Reading and touch a woman's hand lightly with your fingers
as you run routines like these.
-Play fun games like thumb wrestling, showing each other secret
hand shakes, or high-fiving each other.
-Use Kino to lead her when it's applicable. For example lead her
through crowds at bars and clubs by putting out your hand for her
hand and guiding her.
-Do push-pull funny things like tell her she has huge hands and
showing her by sizing your hands against hers.
-And of course there are a thousand other ways.
2. USE A KISS CLOSE to SEAL THE DEAL
Yes, I've heard it before, "I don't want to use a kiss close they
feel fake." Well, that's fine as long as you're consistently
having no trouble kissing women. But if you can't bridge that gap,
you NEED to USE a KISS CLOSE.
A Kiss Close is the device that helps you seal that deal because
it gets you right up to the threshold and almost pushes you into
the kiss, like a helpful skydiver instructor pushing you out the
plane. Once the words or actions of a Kiss Close come out of your
mouth you've displayed your intentions. You are committed to the
kiss. I personally find it infinitely easier to perform a Kiss
Close rather than just take the kiss.
Now that you know the "why" here's the "how." But first a word of
caution. A Kiss Close is never begging or asking. You never say
"Can I kiss you?" or "Please, kiss me." This is not a Kiss Close.
Observe, these following examples and use them or create your own
along the same principles.
I. Mystery's Kiss Close
This is a kiss close that I've used time and time again. And it
works amazingly.
At the moment you feel like there's a lull in the conversation
because the woman might want something more or when she meets your
gaze you say the following.
PUA: "Do you want to kiss me?"
Her: "I don't know."
PUA: "Let's find out."
Then move in for the kiss :)
Of course, she could say two other things "No" or "Yes" and
here's how those play out. If she says "Yes" then you kiss
immediately.
If she says "No" then you say the following:
PUA: "Hey I didn't say you could. It just looked like you had
something on your mind."
II. The Evolution Phase Shift
If you've read "The Game" then you already know this kiss close.
It's brilliant because it incorporates kino escalation into the
close. Here it is:
Tell her that she smells good and ask what she's wearing. Lean in,
brush her hair aside, sniff her slowly, moving up from the shoulder
to the ear. "Mmmm, that smells good. People don't pay enough
attention to smell. But you'll notice how animals, before they mate,
will always smell each other. Evolution has hard-wired us to respond
to certain things. You are wired to respond when someone smells you."
"It's like when someone pulls the back of your hair. You'll notice how
lions, when they mate, always bite and tug at the end of each other's
mane, right here." Point to the back of your head then run your hand
up the back of her neck and grab a fistful of hair at the roots and
pull it, downwards. She says "Mmmm..." And I say "see."
Next say "No one knows this, but the most sensitive places on the body
are places that are usually hidden from contact with the air, like the
back of the elbow (touching it) and knee (touching it). Any place
where your body bends, twists, or folds, there are millions of
sensitive little nerve endings that release endorphins. Take her arm,
bend it a little, and erotically bite the area on the opposite side of
the elbow (that crease where it bends). Ask "Does that feel good?"
[Note for the less experienced: If you don't know how to erotically
bite a girl, learn before you do this. You want to take a big chunk
of skin, not a little pinch and slowly and firmly slide your teeth
together until they meet and release the skin. You may want to
practice on your own elbow first.]
Now you say, "But do you know what the best thing in the world is?
A bite...right...here." And point to the side of your neck. Then
expose your neck and say, "Bite me right here" as if you expect her
to. Fifty percent of the time she will. If she doesn't, just turn
away calmly (punish), wait a few seconds, and then turn back and
repeat, "Bite me right here." Usually she will.
Half the time, her bite will be lame. If so, correct her and say,
"That's not how you bite. Come here." Then give her a good bite on
the neck and instruct her to "try again."
Now look her in the eye, smile mischievously/approvingly, and say,
very slowly, "Not bad." Then glance down at her mouth, back up at
her eyes, and kiss!
Here's the condensed version, write it down and take it into the
field with you: smell, grab hair, touch elbow, touch back of knee,
bite elbow, bite my neck, bite her neck, triangular gazing, kiss.
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WHAT A RIDE IT"S BEEN :)
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Thank you again for all the emails, the support, the comments,
and for reading along all throughout the challenge.
It's been a ton of fun :)
If you're going to make it to London then I promise you a weekend
you'll remember for the rest of your life. It's time to make a
decision:
http://www.stylelife.com/world-conference/london/
Packing my bags,
-The Sneak
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